The Problem We Share
We optimized our lives for freedom and flexibility, we can work from anywhere, and we chose lifestyle over traditional roots. But nobody warned us that Dunbar's number doesn't work over Teams, that social health can't be maintained on a diet of Twitter and Reddit. Our brains evolved for 150 regular faces with regular contact, but that infrastructure is history. We've tried volunteering, hobby groups, putting ourselves out there, but bootstrapping a new group where we can maintain our social health is exhausting. Social media promises connection but delivers junk food that drains us.
A New Way to Think About Social Health
What if we just think about this more creatively? What if our social brains need what our physical bodies need: regular structured exercise. Not therapy, not networking, not more social media, just regular exercise. That's what this club is: regular video calls with structured prompts, you build your circle over time, all the scheduling done for you, all the infrastructure in place so you can simply show up, take your turn, and get back in sync with social evolution.